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Ty Burnz - Distant Love

July 21, 2020

"Distant Love"

As we live life we meet many different people with many different personalities. In some cases we get more attached to an individual that we share things in common with, attracted to or have developed some type of feelings for. Going into a relationship rather its a friendship, intimate relationship or a business relationship it is normal to develop some type of feelings. In some cases, the feelings may be stronger on one side than the other. You may go into the relationship with all good intentions. To love, respect and to grow. You may go in the relationship sharing openly and transparent in hopes you get the same in return. Unfortunately, some of us have a damaged past. A past that has taught selfishness. A past that has taught to look to receive but not to give. A past to expect to be loved, but not love. A past that give a sense of entitlement and never a sense of love. When a person meets and develop feelings for someone with that damaged past it develops a relationship like oil and water, that don't mix. When that pain from that past is released there is know future for a healthy relationship until its healed. Its like a plague the enemy use to spread and destroy. A plague to develop a chain and infect generations. You could love that person, do anything you can for that person, but their damaged past will not let them appreciate your intentions. Instead of them showing gratitude, they will show selfishness.  

Its is important that we understand that through the painful words and hurtful actions from people with a damaged past, that we are not battling with the flesh and blood. The enemy works to corrupt and destroy. He burn through generations to get to one soul. This is why we MUST develop a relationship with Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is the only way to God. The Word of God informs us in Ephesians 6:12 KJV "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places." Knowing this allows you to still love despite of how much it hurts, but loving them from a distance. You can love someone without being around them everyday. You can love them by praying for them asking God to heal them. Sometimes distant love is the best love to give someone with a damage, unhealthy negative past that they have not healed from. Sometimes loving them up close will cause the pain they live with to become the pain you live with.
God Bless,
Ty

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